Too early

It seems inevitable that when I arrive too early to a Milonga,  I end up wondering what the hell I am doing with my life. 

But the Argentine bartender agreed that the wine was too expensive and gave me a discount. 

And the one guy I picked out to dance with turned out to be a serious masseuse and fixed the insane tension in my back by digging his fingers into my psoas for three minutes on the pink velvet couch.  The Europeans  really do a good job with Milonga furniture. 

Today I continuing with the project of being poor in an unenjoyably expensive city.  Radiccio and bread salad.


“It’s not so bad”,  the Swiss say,  “we get paid more.”

I want you to know that you are not alone…

… neither in your dreams for tango nor in your frustrations.

My deepest desire is the same as all my students and friends … those who have yet to start dancing and those who dance a lot.

It’s partnership.

One thing I’ve learned on this quest, we need to:

Stop Waiting for Partners, and start Building them.

I’ve written a 10-step Action Plan.

Are you ready to find the Partners you want?



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