Queer Night 2

Felt awful today,  beyond tired.  The last few days I wake up feeling that sleeping is a lot of work.  Dehydration,  maybe? The exhaustion didn’t lift at the low-ceilinged milonga at Bebop.  The music was bland and the sound system turned it into porridge.

Again,  it was great to șee friends,  and I got to meet Marc’s husband at last.  But I wasn’t moved to dance much.  Heat + low ceiling + boring music…

While not dancing I noticed to my surprise that women seemed to make up nearly half of the dancers.  Did I mention already that everyone in the festival uses use the cabeceo?

Photo from last tanda with extra space.


I want you to know that you are not alone…

… neither in your dreams for tango nor in your frustrations.

My deepest desire is the same as all my students and friends … those who have yet to start dancing and those who dance a lot.

It’s partnership.

One thing I’ve learned on this quest, we need to:

Stop Waiting for Partners, and start Building them.

I’ve written a 10-step Action Plan.

Are you ready to find the Partners you want?



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