Dancing tango means lifting your heart toward other people, so it’s a chance to let go of what you have been hiding in the curve of your shoulder. It’s a path to touch your raw creativity. It’s an invitation to show your bright soul, and to dare to be absolutely fully present in real time action. Tango is playtime where you get to show your sass, your elegance, your very personal sense of sexy. It’s a social space where you can graciously receive others’ desire for you.
People say it’s healing, people say it’s addictive, people find themselves, feel connected, etc. etc. There are a lot of different ways to describe the experience … but real-time partner improvisation is something you’ve got to try!
Many people who’ve started dancing tango “just to meet people” have found themselves a few months later with a lot of new friends, a lot of delight, and a passion. In my view what’s special and healing about tango is the experience of total mutual concentration with another person, in fact several people, every night. But there are many other benefits..
If you’re a man, read the special stuff for men.
Tired of small talk?
Every night at tango socials (“milongas”), people enjoy each other without small talk. It’s a totally different way to get to know people. You can have a sense of community while maintaining your privacy.
Many dancers are singles, but for couples tango is a way to create emotional connection without words – anytime, anywhere.
It’s not too late to fly
Do you regret not being a trapeze artist? Tango movement imparts sensations of suspension, floating, and rushing through the air. But whatmakes tango especially elating is the experience of two people moving as one. And you can have this experience with multiple partners, several nights a week for the rest of your life.
Do you travel a lot for business? Argentine Tango is danced nearly every night in major cities around the world. As a tanguero you will feel at home in the transnational culture of tango wherever you are. You’ll have something to do at night, and a way to meet nice people, from the first day you arrive in a foreign city. Tango is a safe and sweet way to get to know people all over the world, without needing to speak the language.
Sexy is how you Move
Dress up, down, or in drag, but walk as a tango dancer and you’ll feel gorgeous and confident. Leaders will feel more masculine and followers more feminine than ever before. You can live your fantasies every night.
You don’t need any previous dance experience and you don’t have to choose just one role to play!
No one will ever say “you’re too old to be wearing that”
Tango is about being sexy, and there’s no age limit. Tangueras wear high heels, short skirts, deep slits, and sexy stockings into their 90s. Tango men express themselves with bright shoes, silver threads, and rakish hats. If you’re a girl with a fabulous closet and nowhere to wear it, tango might be the social scene you’ve been needing.
And lots of folks wear jeans, Pumas, and t-shirts. You can enjoy tango in any style.
Have you worked hard for a beautiful strong body, and want to find ways to show it off and enjoy it?
If you’re into fitness, you’ll find interesting challenges in tango, to use your body with very specific muscle control, with integration, and with elasticity. If you do yoga, you’ll excel at tango. If you do pilates, it will make sense to you. None of this is necessary to dance tango, but it will be interesting if you speak these languages. You’ll have a chance to feel and use your strength and flexibility, and have it appreciated in an elegant and respectful setting.
Tired of the bar scene?
Are you sober, or just don’t like to be around drunk people? Do you feel that socializing seems to revolve around alcohol, more than you prefer? Most tango dancers don’t drink while dancing, and those who do only have a little, as tango is better when you can pay attention.
The lack of expectation to drink also reduces the cost of the evening. You can dance and socialize all night for about the price of a movie ticket.
Diverse and inclusive community
A room of tango dancers includes people from 20-90 years of age, from many walks of life, and usually from many countries. We all dance together with grace and generosity.
It’s a social environment totally comfortable both for singles and couples.
“I don’t have any rhythm”
This dance does not require you to dance on the beat. In fact you can dance to any part of the music you want, and traditional tango gives you a lot of choices, including several rhythms and melodies. You can dance to the melody or change around from one part to another part of the music. As long as you like MUSIC you can dance tango. There’s no right way to interpret it.
“I have two left feet”
People do this dance well into their 90s. If you can walk, you can dance tango. Remember that this is a social dance, which means the goal of classes is to get you to have a good time and give a nice experience to another person, not to perform for an audience. You may have seen spectacular tango choreographies performed on a stage or for television, but most of the tango that is danced every night around the world is improvised and does not require physical fitness.
That said if you have done any kind of exercise involving your core, you will be well-prepared for tango.
“I don’t like tango music”
While it’s true that many tango events emphasize traditional music, it’s possible to dance tango to any music.
You may also want to read the Frequently Asked Questions.