Sep 132014
 

You’re too tired to contemplate putting on your shoes. You’re worn out by life. You want to cry, or scream, or get drunk. And it was a crazy day. There’s no time for dinner now. But the milonga beckons. Maybe you’ll feel better there? You remind yourself that last night did not make you feel better. But tonight might be different? What if that amazing dancer you love is there? What if few people go and your favorites are standing around. What if you miss a chance for multiple tandas with ______?

And you need to improve. You can’t slack off and lose your hard-won gains. You need every dance to practice and improve. Sometimes you wonder what is supposed to happen at the end of all this practice, but your experience so far suggests that the coming wonders of tango are always bigger than your imagination.

What if there’s a visitor here for just one night? What if this visitor is the partner you’ve been dreaming of? You could have the experience you’ve been yearning for. You could fall in love.

This is fantasy, and yet you know it’s not. You know that ecstasy is within your grasp. You just need to get over there. It’s the tango grind. Dont forget your shoes!

I'd love to dance with you

photo Ilsa Hellman

I want you to know that you're not alone....

... neither in your dreams for tango nor in your frustrations.

My deepest desire is the same as all my students and friends ... those who have yet to start dancing and those who dance a lot.

It's partnership.

One thing I've learned on this quest, we need to:

Stop Waiting for Partners, and start
Building them

I've written a 10-step action guide. Are you ready to find the Partners you want?

 13 September 2014